Saturday, February 12, 2011

Brown History for Kids...The Harlem Renaissance

designed by Royal Amethyst LLC
 In the world of my 4 year old son, Black people are brown and White people are peach.  If you follow me on Twitter, you may have read that he told me he wanted to celebrate Brown history, not Black History because his skin is brown.  Teaching our history clearly starts at an early age.

You may recall from my facebook post that I am the chair of Black History month at my daughter's public school.  After it being a non-event last year, I volunteered myself to ensure that a meaningful celebration of our culture took place.


For Black History Month, students are often given bits and pieces of information without context.  One day learning about Dr. King, the next Harriet Tubman and the next Jackie Robinson with no understanding of how they relate or the historical timeline or social conditions that existed at the time that they lived.  To counteract that, I wanted to take a more integrated approach enabling children to learn in a more wholistic fashion making a greater impact.  

So as I began to make my plans, my first step was to choose a theme: The Harlem Renaissance


Taking a comprehensive approach gave me the platform to present the history, geography, philosophy and artistic elements that emerged in addition to the key figures of the era.  

In a school that is 50% African American and 50% White, it was also important to me to celebrate the brilliance, creativity and success of Black people.  I remember being horrified when my preschooler came home and blurted out, "Martin Luther King was shot".  Not that he was factually incorrect, but what a harsh way for a 3 year old to learn about one of our greatest leaders.  Clearly his legacy can be broken down in some other manner that children can grasp at that young age.  The message that Black folks were college educated, created art forms like Jazz, were wealthy and accomplished and not only slaves was critical to expanding the knowledge of these elementary school children.

So what are we doing?  I'm glad you asked:)

Each week takes an element of the Harlem Renaissance (history/geography, arts, key figures) and breaks it into small chunks of information.  We share the information daily during morning announcements and send a summary home in a weekly newsletter so families can share in the learning and reinforce the information. 

Students get to test what they have learned in the Black History Challenge.  Each perfect score gains the student a ticket into raffle with phenomenal prizes such as a Family Membership to the Studio Museum in Harlem http://www.studiomuseum.org/ and a gift certificate to the renowned Hue-Man Bookstore & Cafe in Harlem  http://huemanbookstore.com/.



Our grand finale is our school wide assembly featuring Victoria Bond and T.R Simon, authors of the acclaimed book Zora and Me http://zoraandme.com/ and award winning illustrator Bryan Collier http://bryancollier.com/  (Uptown, Visiting Langston and Doo-Wop Pop).  The students themselves will also take center stage taking us back to the Savoy with the Jitterbug, reciting Langston's poems, discussing the art of Romare Bearden and singing Lift Evry Voice to name a few.



It is my hope that after all is said and done, we will have made a positive impact, expanded the students' body of knowledge an left an indelible imprint of the souls of Black folk.  

How is your child(ren)'s school celebrating Black History Month?

Special thanks to my co-chairman and Chocolate Chip mom, Tara Lattimer-Wilson, Royale Amethyst LLC  http://www.facebook.com/pages/Royale-Amethyst-Invitations-LLC/167803829930371?v=wall for the beautiful banner and Marva Allen of Hue-Man Bookstore and Cafe for helping turn my vision into reality.




Friday, February 4, 2011

The Prep School Negro Comes to The Calhoun School

The Prep School Negro Comes to The Calhoun School

You haven't seen The Prep School Negro yet? Well you're in luck!
RIISE presents the criticially acclaimed documentatry at The Calhoun School February 15, 2011.

Click above for details and to RSVP because space is limited.

Check out one of our early reviews from the Chocolate Chip archives...

http://chocolatechiponline.blogspot.com/2009/11/prep-school-negro-of-week-melissa-b.html

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Who's Ready for Satchmo?

What a fantastic way to jump start your Black History month festivities by introducing your children to Jazz.


Characterized by syncopated rhythms and improvisation, Jazz originated among African Americans in New Orleans over a century ago.

Jazz at Lincoln Center presents,Who is Louis Armstrong?, the 2nd installment in it's Jazz for Young People Series on Saturday January 29, 2011 at the Rose Theater. Showtimes: 1pm and 3pm. Tickets: $12, $20 & $28. Click the link below for more details and to purchase tickets.
http://jalc.org/concerts/details309a.asp?EventID=2365

Stay tuned for Chocolate Chip's month long exploration of the Harlem Renaissance designed especially for kids young and not so young:)

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Should You Tap Into Your Inner Chinese Mother?

I have been talking with moms about this article ALL day and couldn't wait to get to my laptop to share it with my Chocolate Chip family.




In this WSJ article, Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior, http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read author Amy Chua introduces readers to her new parenting memoir, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, and gives a sneak peak into what it takes to raise successful Chinese children. 

Do you praise your children?  Are you concerned about their self-esteem and give them opportunities to share their opinions and make choices?  Do you allow them to watch tv, play video games and have playdates?  If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are clearly NOT a Chinese mother by Amy Chua's standard.    

Are you the disciplinarian?  Think you're hardcore in your parenting?  Hold onto your seats. You might cringe when you read how this Chinese mother handled piano practice at home with her 7 year old daughter. 

Want more info?  Check out the book review in Speakeasy produced by Chocolate Chip friend, Christopher John Farley. http://blogs.wsj.com/speakeasy/2011/01/10/battle-hymn-of-the-tiger-mother-review-revue/?KEYWORDS=AMY+CHUA

Chime in by commenting in the box below.  Is Amy Chua on point?  Will you take a page out of her motherhood handbook?  Or does she go overboard?  We want to know what you think.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Self-Expansion and the "ME" Marriage

At Chocolate Chip we believe healthy marriages are the foundation of healthy families.  Consider us your resource for strengthening your marriage as you strengthen your family.

To that end, we are sharing, The Happy Marriage Is the ‘Me’ Marriage, by Tara Parker-Pope recently published by the New York Times.  The article examines the evolution of marriage from primarily an economic and social institution to contemporary unions where individual emotional and intellectual needs and the desire for spouses "who make their lives more interesting" is critical. 

So is self-expansion, "how individuals use a relationship to accumulate knowledge and experiences", the key to happy and sustainable relationships?  Click the link below to read the article, then post your comments below on the blog.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/02/weekinreview/02parkerpope.html

Friday, December 31, 2010

It's Not Too Late To Set Family Goals for 2011

2010 is history!  Have you chartered your course as a family for 2011?  I'm not talking about resolutions that will last a week before you break them, but a plan of action for the entire family.

Here's one of our goals:

As parents of 4 and 6 year olds, we recognize the important role of cultural enrichment to expand upon what they learn in school.  To that end we will visit a museum/cultural center each month.  We actually started early by attending the Medieval treasure hunt at the Metropolitan Museum of Art at the Cloisters yesterday and a quick visit today to the American Museum of Natural History.  We had to pull the kids away from the galaxy exhibits where Brooke learned about supernovas.  Ryan lit up when he saw "Rexy" the dinosaur from Night at the Museum.  I can't wait to watch how they grow and develop as a result of these monthly excursions. 

See not so bad...

In addition to our personal goals, each child has their own goals too: 

Read a chapter book a month
Make up bed/keep room clean daily
Learn to ride bike without training wheels
Eat vegetables...
You get the picture. 

Our friends at Kadence LLC http://kadencellc.com/ , advise that you break annual goals into quarterly goals to help you stay on track.  Check them out for upcoming workshops to help you get the best out of 2011. 

My husband Spencer forwarded the following article to me about setting family goals, so I'm playing it forward by sharing it with you.

http://family-life.familieswithpurpose.com/2008/01/13/setting-family-goals/


Here's to raising our families together! 

Wishing you a blessed, healthy, prosperous and joy-filled 2011!!

Friday, December 17, 2010

The Chocolate Chip Guide to Christmas 2010

Welcome to the Chocolate Chip Guide to Christmas 2010....

We've made our list and checked it twice...
Here are a few of our favorite things of the holiday season:

Our favorite television programs......

A Charlie Brown Christmas

Truly a classic!! My brother, cousin and I used to ROFL watching those kids rock out to Schroeder's tunes on the piano!!! (I know EVERY dance- Do you?)

It's not Christmas until my mother hears Linus respond to Charlie Brown's plea:

"Isn't there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about?"
Check it out on hulu now:

The Sound of Music
"The hills are alive....."
I absolutely LOVE watching the Sound of Music which traditionally airs the week between Christmas and New Year's Day. The music, the songs, great plot and story line...Just LOVE it!
Watch this classic with the children.

The Arts....

Alvin Ailey- Revelations
"I've been 'buked and I've been scorned...."
Sinner Man, Fix Me Jesus, I Wanna Be Ready, Wadin' in the Water.....I LOVE every movement of this signature classic of the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theatre.
Without a doubt my most favorite activity of the season! 
At least one tear (who am I kidding, MANY) will find its way down my cheek as I watch mezmorized by the strength, beauty, fire, power, joy and grace of this American classic set to the Negro spirituals.  Revelations touches my soul every time! 
Catch Ailey at the New York City Center now thru January 2, 2011.  You won't regret it.


The Nutcracker Ballet
If you're a member of the Chocolate Chip family, you know that our annual family outing was made extra special this year with Brooke's appearance in the Purchase College Conservatory of Dance production of The Nutcracker

Whether you see the NYC Ballet http://www.nycballet.com/nycb/home/ (thru January 2nd) or a local more modest production, the story of Clara and her most favorite Christmas gift set to Tchaikovsky's score is not to be missed. 

The Westchester County Ballet presents their production at the Westchester County Center this weekend 12/18-12/19  Check out the link below for tickets.  Advance sales: $18, children and seniors $12. All tickets $22 on the day of performance

Special Events...

The Holiday Train Show at the New York Botanical Gardens


Thru Jan 9th, 2011  Come to my hometown, the BX, to check out what is without a doubt the BEST way to see NYC!

While you're there check out the Gingerbread Adventures, The Little Engine That Could™ Puppet Show and Thomas the Tank Engine (1/1-1/9).  Our 4 year old Ryan is going to LOVE that!!!

March of The Wooden Soldiers
As performed by the Rockettes at the Christmas Spectacular at Radio City thru December 31,2010

Ah this brings back such fond memories of my high school years....Shout out to Cardinal Spellman's Flag Corps (I see you Karen and Melody) who perform it annually


And the traditional NYC spots....

...The Tree and Herald Angels at Rockefeller Center
...The Christmas Windows: Macy's and Lord & Taylor

Ice Skating

Although we've yet to brave the cold and long wait at Rockefeller Center, your local ice skating rink will certainly do the trick

Until a few weeks ago, my husband had NEVER ice skated in his life!! Inspired by Shani Davis and Apollo, our 4 year old got on the ice this year for the first time and thoroughly enjoyed it! 
Our local department of recreation even offers family free skate and $20 lessons for children. 

Nothing follows ice skating better than
Hot cocoa in a mug!

We've added a new Westchester spot to our list this year. 
Please send us your own.  We'll be more than willing to conduct a taste test:)
And don't forget Spencer's secret ingredient: a dash of cinnamon

MarieBelle Soho: The Cacao Bar
484 Broome St, between Wooster St and West Broadway
Simply divine European-style Aztec Hot Chocolate- YUMMMMMM!!!!

Chocolations
(Gotta love a great brand name!)
607 East Boston Post Road
Mamaroneck, NY 10543
Phone: 914.777.3600

Don't forget to add
Your Personal Touch...

A Warm Gathering...
of Family and Friends. Potluck with the girls night crew or your neighbors.  
In all the busyness of our demanding schedules make sure you make time to share joy with those you love. 
We've even turned a play date into a holiday experience.  This Sunday 12/19 Brooke will be meeting up with her BFF at Lola's Tea House to decorate a ginger bread house.

Your special holiday dish
Mine is CHEESECAKE!! 
Ask my husband, the kids, their pediatrition (even her husband and staff put in their requests) and teachers... 
I only whip them up for the holidays which makes them an extra special treat! 
I'm also known for my Gingerbread Waffles (thanks Rachel Ray). 
 Share you speciality with the Chocolate Chip family:)

and finally but FOREMOST...

The Reason for the Season

Celebrate the birth of Christ with
Christian Culture Center's
Creative Arts Department Anuual Christmas Production
12020 Flatlands Avenue
Brooklyn, NY
Wednesday 12/22 and Thurs 12/23
8pm-10pm

Whatever you do make this blessed and joyous holiday season an extra special one for you and your family.

From our family to yours,

Merry Christmas!!!!!!